If you’re in a serious relationship, marriage might well be the end goal. Most couples start talking about marriage after they’ve been together for about a year or so, as it’s important to find out whether they’re on the same page. After all, if one person wants to get married and have children, but the other person doesn’t, this can be an issue years down the road.
If you are both on the same page, it makes sense to have a plan in place for your engagement. A proposal is more than just a way to ask to get married, but it’s a gift in and of itself.
An engagement ring is a symbol of your commitment to each other, and the way someone proposes says a lot about how much they care about their relationship and their future spouse.
Picking the Ring
When it comes to great gifts, jewelry is a wonderful choice at any time. But you do need to be mindful when selecting an engagement ring of a few things. First, you need to consider your budget.
Second, you need something that will look good. Finally, and most importantly, you need something that your fiancee will love wearing.
The next thing to consider is the ring size. If you can get the exact ring size, all the better. If not, try to get an estimate and size up. You can get an estimate by borrowing an existing ring or asking friends and family. Sizing up makes it easier to slide the ring onto your fiancee’s finger, and it’s also simpler to reduce a ring size later down the line.
An online store can be the best place to buy engagement rings, because you have more of a selection and can browse options according to your future fiancee’s preferences.
Friends and Family
Different people have different preferences when it comes to how private or public they want their proposal to be. For some people, a proposal at a football match is a nightmare, while other people might absolutely love it.
The most important thing is that you know what your future fiancee will like, and you don’t focus on what you want over anything else.
Whether you have a public proposal, a more intimate proposal, or something in between, it’s a good idea to have family and friends nearby so you can celebrate together.
Proposal Photography
Sometimes the best gift is your memories of what happened. If possible, you can get a proposal photographer to capture the moment of the “yes”, as well as the reaction. A professional photographer will make sure the pictures look beautiful, and they can even stay hidden so nobody raises any suspicions.
A professional photographer can then stick around for immediate proposal photographs, including the celebration with family and friends. This way, you have something to look back on, as well as some great pictures to use to tell other people.
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